Making Decisions as well as believing huge

have you ever had to make a truly huge decision as well as discovered yourself paralyzed by fear?  perhaps you were trying to choose whether to leave your job.  perhaps a connection had gone sour as well as you were believing about leaving.  perhaps you were trying to choose about moving to a new city.  however you discovered yourself not able to make a decision.  Why do we get stuck when it pertains to making huge decisions, as well as exactly how can we get rid of this?

One of the primary reasons why we frequently discover it difficult to make decisions is that we believe of the result being ideal or wrong.  in contrast to the funny photo at the top of this post, there truly are no wrong decisions (although the kitten in the picture may disagree!), there are only different choices.  when you genuinely believe that, it becomes much easier to make decisions.   Additionally, extremely few decisions are irreversible.  We always have the power to make a different choice.

Another reason why making a decision can be tough is fear.  concern of the outcome, concern of exactly how a “wrong” decision may effect our lives as well as the lives of those around us, concern of taking some risks.  A fear-based decision is never a great decision.  concern limits.  If we online in fear, we will never be able to recognize our full potential.  concern is never truth.  If you feel fear, keep in mind to link with your spiritual core as well as remind yourself that there is no space for concern when you are linked to your true self.

So exactly how do we go about making decisions without getting caught up in worry, concern as well as limitations?  one of the very best pieces of recommendations I got from one of my mentors was to make decisions from the location I want to be, not from the location I’m in.  This indicates that if I’m believing as well as dreaming big, I requirement to be prepared to make decisions that support that type of thinking.  I can’t choose from a location of concern as well as scarcity if I want to online a huge life that completely shows who I truly am. 

Amber doesn’t comprehend why  humans have such a tough time making decisions.  She states all decisions are eventually only about two things:  does it feel good?  Or does it feel bad?  Make the decision that feels good, as well as it will always serve you.

Ingrid King

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5 comments on Making Decisions as well as believing Big

Ingrid says:

September 23, 2009 at 12:07 pm

Thanks for your comment, Shannon. Isn’t it remarkable exactly how life modifications when we figure out that concern only serves to keep us stuck?

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BocMeow Pet care (Shannon) says:

September 23, 2009 at 10:48 am

Great post, Ingrid! Living in concern will only keep us stuck as well as a lot of likely the things we DON’T want to occur will keep happening up until we eliminate the fear.

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Ingrid says:

August 19, 2009 at 7:17 pm

I agree, Tammy, that it can be a difficulty to make decisions based just on what feels good, however when you recognize that it’s the only method to go, it gets easier. Congrats on your huge decision to step to Oregon – seems like it’s working out for you!

Confucius Cat, as always, the kitties get it before the humans do. Your mummy is lucky to have you.

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Confucius feline says:

August 19, 2009 at 5:41 pm

Good advice. I always try to do things that make me as well as my mummy happy.

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Tammy says:

August 19, 2009 at 11:41 am

I like Amber’s recommendations at the end. I’m discovering to online that method actually! (though it’s not always as simple as it is for kitties!)

Fear is a paralyzer. My hubby as well as I just recently transferred to Oregon. Making that decision took a great deal of time for us to work around to! when the decision had been made though, we understood it was ideal since whatever started falling into place. now that we’re here, I can’t assist however wonder, why didn’t we do this sooner?! ? as well as we know, if we wind up not wanting to online right here long-term, we only have to choose where to go next!

Great post!

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